Goldin Girl Column

If you don't trust them.... then your Rosie Red Relationship will never last!!

Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. I'm sure you've heard that before... but so many people that I have seen in my clinic are in a relationship with a person that they don't trust as far as they could throw!

You want to be in a relationship that is red and pink with love, white with calmness and peace and yellow with happiness and fun. What you DO NOT want is to be blue with sadness, green with jealousy when they talk to another person or black and low because your don't trust your partner.

Halloween is the perfect time to unleash the colors inside you!

The colors that we have around us... and that we are drawn to make us feel a certain way. They impact upon our subconscious mind and create feelings inside us. Colors contribute to happy feelings, sad feelings and often people tend to show their feeling through the colors that they wear and surround themselves in.

I wonder if you are one of those people who stick to the same colors in your life? You usually wear the same colors, and have the same theme of color in your home etc?? How would you feel about changing things around... and seeing how having different colors around you makes you feel? Halloween is the perfect opportunity to come out of your color shell and try out wearing and taking part in other colors without having to commit to them for good!!

Game playing can cause you to feel unproductive negative colors!!

Game Playing, when it comes to your relationship - or dating - is something that most people have done at some time or another. I bet that the majority of those dates/relationships that have started off with the auld game playing vibe have ended. Why's that? I'll tell you why... because if you start a relationship with game playing - that is usually how it will carry on... and if you don't want to be playing games 3 years into the relationship - then you never should have started playing them in the beginning. They can cause you to feel unproductive negative colors that you wouldn't be feeling in a good easy going happy relationship.

Some Game Playing colors include:
Green = If they have made you feel jealousy or envy.
Blue = If you are feeling low (if they haven't called you back or texted you back)
Black = The black mood they put you in messing your head around.

Visualize your future in color… and your mind will make it a reality!

Do you know what you want your life to be like in the future? Do you have goals? Ambitions? Do you know what you want to achieve? Do you know what you want to look like? How you want to feel?....

Most people answer yes when asked this... but rarely have they really thought about it. Rarely have they actually seen it and visualized it in their mind.... Pictured it in their future.... and you know what... unless your mind can see what you want to have, feel and be in your future - it will be really hard for you to get there and achieve it! Its like if you are driving from Manhattan in New York, to Los Angels in California. If you cant see Los Angeles on the map... how will you know how to get there? And if by luck - you stumble across it... How will you know its there that it is Los Angeles that you have gotten to?! What I'm getting at here is that you HAVE to know and be able to see (in your mind) where you are going in your future... so that you can get there easily and as fast as possible!

Work like you care… and your life will get brighter and more colorful before your eyes!

How do you feel in work? Do you spend most of the day counting down the minutes until you can go home?! Do you sit in a dark, dull, grey state wishing for time to move faster? If that sounds like you - then you sound like the majority of people that are part of the working rat race.