Now - if that is the state of mind you are leaving yourself in - then my god who knows what kind of relationship you could end up in?! If you are just in a relationship because you don't like being on your own - you are leaving yourself open to not only a "bad relationship", or one where you are not treated the way you deserve - yet putting up with it anyway purely because you don't want to be on your own... but you might find yourself "settling" with your current partner... just because you don't want to be on your own or don't value yourself worthy of something better?!

My point is - you have to be happy with yourself. You have to be happy spending time with yourself... in your own company. You have to value yourself and hold yourself in high self-worth. You have to LOVE yourself... and I know a lot of people would find it very hard to admit they love themselves as in society we are continually squashed down being told "Not to have a big ego" or "a big head as people in Ireland would say!" But you have to love yourself - otherwise other people will find it hard to love you in the full sense of the word. You have to value yourself as a person, as an individual, so that whatever relationship you do eventually end up in... and I'm talking about for the long haul here... that it will be right, it will be mutual, both of you will be on an even keel, you will respect each other and most of all respect yourself enough to know if this really is the right relationship for you to be in.

Because at the end of the day - you are the most important person in your life. Some of you might disagree with that statement as say that no... your family, friends, kids, whoever are more important than you would hold yourself... but you are wrong, because if you are not happy... then it will without a doubt filter through your body language and they will know - which in turn will make them unhappy. If you don't care enough about yourself and your life, if you are not here in mind or body... then again you will not be able to do anything for the people in this world that you love. So do it for them... and do it for yourself and start loving yourself today.... It will make every relationship in your life so much better and make you all feel alive again!

Bring it on!!!

Katie-Jane xx