We all need to keep our inner drive for passion alive... because passion, wanting and well...flirting, are all things that the subconscious mind never stops craving. You see as soon as your subconscious gets the idea that it might never feel that fuzzy feeling in your tummy again - it can begin to lose interest in your current partner or (if your single) your search for a partner. You have to keep that spark inside you alive - whether you're in a relationship or not - and the best way to do that... is to flirt!!

If you're single, you can't just wait around for Mr. or Mrs. Right to show up... you have to put yourself out there... show the world your open to meeting new people. Flirt. I have no doubt that as soon as you change your mindset, change your body language and loosen up a bit - new opportunities will come rolling in! (More info on how to flirt can be found in my new book - click here for more information)

Flirting can be done every day... it's a form of building and working on your inner quiet confidence. It doesn't always have to mean you're trying to pick up someone that you fancy... it doesn't have to mean anything at all... it's really just a form of creating rapport between people and making new friends (or possible lovers) in a positive light.

Flirting is all about subtly showing your intentions with a person while at the same time reading in between the lines and registering the signals they are sending back at you. Once you master these things... which can only be learned by practice and an inner confidence and belief in yourself... you will find flirting fun, natural and automatic.

The art of flirting is something that has to be learned from the inside out, your flirty alter ego is inside you somewhere - you just gotta find him/her, become aware of your currently hidden flirting skills and then use them to increase the fun side of your life!!

So go on... time to let loose and start having some lovin fun!!

Katie-Jane xx

P.S. Click here to check out my new book "The Goldin Art of Flirting" - which comes with an MP3 (which will help you to increase your inner confidence in dating, flirting and relationships) So go on.... find yourself!! CLICK HERE

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